FTP ACCESS hangs on LIST of Directories

[Big Booger]

I am trying to access an FTP server, my server actually from work. I am behind a firewall and am using a program to emulate a proxy and tunnel through the firewall at work.

I can ping the FTP, I can log in, but I cannot get the directories to list properly. IT just says listing, and then hangs up, waits for about 5 minutes then disconnects.

I am using Bullet Proof Server 2.15

and the latest build of FlashFXP to connect... I have flash working through a proxy in the advanced settings, set to 127.0.0.1, and port 1080, which allows it to connect to my FTP through Socks2HTTP. I have to access the server in passive mode because of the firewall..
Any ideas?

Here is the message that I get:
Connecting to ***********.dyndns.org via Proxy
Connected to Proxy 127.0.0.1 Port 1080
220 BIGBOOGER's FTP
331 Password required for ********* (username.
PASS (hidden)
230 User ********* (username) logged in.
SYST
215 UNIX Type: L8
REST 100
350 REST supported. Ready to resume at byte offset 100.
REST 0
350 REST supported. Ready to resume at byte offset 0.
CWD /
250 CWD command successful. "/" is current directory.
PWD
257 "/" is current directory.
TYPE A
200 Type set to A.
PASV
227 Entering Passive Mode (192,168,0,3,225,13).
LIST
Connection lost: ***********.dyndns.org

does it every time.
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[Reverend]

Have you tried it without the proxy,(0), and port 21.
Also turn off passive mode as well.

[Big Booger]

yep,it never connects unless I use the advanced options, proxy 5 with 127.0.0.1 and port 1080 with passive mode checked. Then I can connect, but the list fails...

And I have tried connecting through a browser as well... doesn't work.
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