Help please!!!!
Is that what you really want ? or does the help need to fit what you want to hear ?

Format, use 1 AV, use 1 anti-spyware, use 1 firewall and throw all that other stuff away !!! Get a new hobby like see how many MP3's you can collect or something.

Go out with the girl who wants you and maybe she'll take your mind off all that security stuff that's squeezing every last bit of code your PC has to offer....