I am posting my own solution as other forums have helped me through this issue.
Thanks for looking though guys!
Hopefully this will help someone else someday...

Well I did finally get a solution to the issue.
I had to find the 64 bit drivers for the printer for Vista, and then it would install the All in one center and run the printer perfectly.
Before that I had to download a update from Dell that removed all the Dell crap as to clearly install the drivers and software.
It is explained if you read the articles and verified answers on Dell's forums
site here: http://en.community.dell.com/forums/t/19274021.aspx
The 64 bit working driver for Win 7 is R146813
I am sure it will work for quite a few Dell Printers

Thanks folks for all you help as this was driving me nuts!